Pet my Peeves: 

Warning I have already taken my ambien for the evening and just feel like shooting it straight lol. I used to not have so many pet peeves but the older I get the more people drive me nuts. Ill just do 4 top ones for this evening before I go comatose. 

1. Facebook status posting about how sick you are……. WTF if you were that sick you wouldnt be on your phone. Your head or ass would be in a toilet somewhere. Sorry sister no sympathy from me. ✔ unfollow 

2. LOUD people in quiet places. Get your damn ears checked noome wants to hear your entire lunch order from across the room.  Put the megaphone down & step away. 🚫Block 

3.  People of walmart be damned. Its like a circus in there. The last time I went two teenage boys was racing on the motorized scooters. A couple was throwing a softball up and down the aisle. Then comes around the corner food stamp queen with 6 kids dirty and rolling all over the floor. REALLY cant I just get some necessities & get out. ☠☢☡

4. Rude Customer Service People. Um excuse,me I didnt pick your job and I dont need your attitude. Im sorry you have to deal with the public they suck I know. But I am always kind and respectful and expect the same…. 

And so I leave you with this: You have to laugh to keep from crying…. 

Transition: Single land to married land. 

Recently engaged and still on cloud 9 ive noticed a shift in my relationship with some of my friends. Its the weirdest thing I have been waiting my entire life for this period of time I am in but yet feel sad at the same time. Ive watched all of my friends date, get married , have babies etc. I was in attendance for every happy event. Now that it is my turn I feel some friends have tried and make me doubt my decisions and seem like an inconvenience. Why cant people just be happy for one another?  Out with the negative.  Just had to get off my chest. I know some people will understand and some people will get offended. If you het offended count yourself one less friend. Thanks 

On my mind… 

To the overly sensitive person who tries their best but somehow gets knocked down.  I am with you ! I try my hardest to not take things in my life personal but somehow it never works.  I have tried to confront that issue for basically my whole life.  Perfection is not reality but I try to be a better person than I was the day before.  Kindness & Compassion is almost non-existent in 2016.   People always say just do you don’t worry about everyone else. I guess I struggle with that because I want to believe people try their best.  I wouldn’t call myself an optimist more so a realist. Self reflection is key for me . I am hard on myself. I try my hardest not to be.  Life is a journey and I hope that I can master the skill of being thick skinned . Until then pass the Kleenex & chocolate.  

Signed : Kk